Okay, admittedly, you'll probably never be called upon to stop a nuclear bomb, rescue kidnapped family members, infiltrate a drug cartel, or fake your own death, all of which the hero of 24 has had to do during the show's first five seasons. Your typical day may be less dramatic, but we bet you still know what it's like to face overwhelming stress. The question is, how are you handling it? Let's look at stress, what it does to your body, and how to stop it from taking over your life.
Get to know the enemy
We tend to think of stress as a single entity, but there are actually three kinds: acute stress, episodic acute stress, and chronic stress.
Acute stress is the most common type. It's caused by recent pressures and pressures we're anticipating in the near future. Sometimes we enjoy stress, and many of us seek it out (for example, by watching scary movies or participating in extreme sports). Sometimes it's caused by a positive life change, such as a job promotion or a new baby. Other times, it's foisted upon us in the form of deadlines, rush hour traffic, or a lost wallet.
In stressful situations, our bodies react with a "fight or flight" response. The autonomic nervous system, which regulates bodily functions including the heartbeat, digestion, breathing, and perspiration, floods your system with stress hormones (adrenaline and cortisol). As a result, your heart rate and blood pressure rise and you feel a rush of energy. You may also have a rapid or irregular heartbeat, breathing difficulties, sweaty palms, a rise in blood pressure, cold hands or feet, dizziness, or chest pain.
Small amounts of stress are exciting, but too much can be draining and even harmful. It can lead to emotional distress (anger, anxiety, depression, irritability), gastrointestinal problems (heartburn, diarrhea, constipation), and muscular tension (headaches, back and jaw pain).
Episodic acute stress is acute stress that won't quit. People in this situation feel perpetually overwhelmed - they face too many demands and never have enough time. They're often tense, irritable, and anxious, which can lead to conflicts with co-workers, family members, or the next guy who cuts them off on the expressway. Physical consequences include high blood pressure, persistent tension headaches, migraines, chest pain, and heart disease.
Has anyone ever said that you worry too much? You could have another form of episodic acute stress. Constant worriers expect the worst in every situation and have a bleak view of the world. They also tend to be over-aroused, tense, anxious, and depressed. Or perhaps you work in an especially stressful field. It's not healthy to feel like you're constantly under siege. Speaking to a counselor or psychologist is a step in the right direction.
If you are often in a prolonged state of anxiety, you may have a different mental health issue, such as generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), or phobias. An underlying medical problem, such as a thyroid disorder, could also be to blame. Talk to your doctor.
Chronic stress, as the name implies, is a long-term form of stress that slowly eats away at a person's mind and body. It affects people stuck in difficult situations: a dysfunctional family, an unhappy marriage, a hated job. Chronic stress can also be rooted in traumatic experiences that continue to cause emotional pain.
Chronic stress has been linked to serious health problems including stroke and heart attack. Treatment for chronic stress may require medical and behavioral treatment, as well as stress management.
To assess your stress level, try the stress quiz.
What's your escape plan?
We all face pressures in our daily lives. Your mission is to manage your stress before it takes a major toll on your mind and body.
Pay attention to physical cues - are you grinding your teeth at night? Are your shoulders always tight? When did that heartburn start?
Try to avoid stress in the first place. Learn to say no, as in "No, I can't take on another project" and "No, I can't run the bake sale this year." Talk to your doctor, a counselor, or the employee assistance program at your workplace about issues that are bothering you. Do some soul-searching and identify the changes you'd like to make and the steps you need to get there. Don't be afraid to call for backup, such as your partner or friends. It can take several weeks or months to change habits, so be patient as you work through any setbacks.
Simple relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing exercises or progressive muscle relaxation (tensing each group of muscles for a few seconds, then releasing), can help you feel less frazzled. Meditation, practiced regularly, can reduce tension and calm the mind. Visualization exercises are also helpful - try envisioning a quiet, peaceful place.
Regular exercise is a terrific stress-buster. Start by taking walks at lunchtime and gradually increase the intensity. To improve your overall well-being, eat healthfully and get plenty of sleep. No matter what type of stress you're under, avoid using alcohol, cigarettes, recreational drugs, or food to deal with negative feelings.
Incorporate time-saving solutions whenever possible. For example, instead of making dinner every night, prepare big batches of your favorite recipes on weekends and freeze the portions. Set aside time for fun activities with people whose company you enjoy.
